"We don't just penetrate with the penis. We don't just touch with the hands. We don't just kiss with the mouth. In the case of penetrating, it's not the size, the thickness, the stiffness or the strength that counts. It's not just the footprint that gives pleasure. It’s not just the duration that excites. It’s not the alternation that brings pleasure. It’s not time that proves virility. It’s no use penetrating without libido. which determines the measure of penetration. When you have a desire, everything works well - and not much practice is needed. Sex is the inside and the outside in the same harmony. It is not enough to tighten the organ. There is no point in an erect penis supported by an automaton body. It is not a technique we are talking about. It is not mechanics we are referring to. Who does not know how to differentiate between affectionate sex and disaffected sex? !!? well the delight of a body excited by the frustration of a frigid body. It is the feeling that weighs. Anyone - minimally intelligent and sensitive - can tell when they are and are not being affected by someone. No penetration can do without the frisson of those who penetrate. It is possible to know - in the preliminaries - whether the outcome will be worth it or not. Affection has to come together. Penetration is only satisfactory if the look, the mouth, the tongue and the hands, in short, if the whole body penetrates together. All penetration only goes crazy when it comes pulsating. The woman will only allow herself to be penetrated when her penetrator comes completely into her. Without affection, we penetrate just to discharge. Without affection, we come and run to the shower. Without affection, we immediately sent to the first taxi stand. Without affection, almost nothing happens. You know that woman who does not give up that companion completely out of the standards of beauty ?? That is why the wheelchair is most successful with his girlfriend: he may no longer have an erection - which does not mean that he has ceased to pulse with affection. Stay tuned: just go to bed with someone who wants you overflowing with pleasure. Sex is not just body. Sex is body, soul, sensitivity, intelligence, will and virility together. Here's the tip!
Authored by Psychoanalyst Evaristo Magalhaes